how to send tells
/tell toon@handle, blahblahblahblah
how to send group invites
I've only invited fleet members or friends list folks, so I use those lists and invite off there.
how to fix my camera angle so it follows behind <please, let there be a way to do that>
I would like to know if this is possible myself, but SO FAR its looking like yer camera always follows yer current target. that works great for ground combat, not so much for ship. I'll keep playing with it.
and how to get trade in my male Engineer for a female one
hit U to bring up yer main character window, select the officer, and then there should be a "discharge" button at the bottom of the window. After that, there is a bridge officer "vendor" in the Personnel section of Spacedock you can go to to trade in starfleet merits for another officer. And, if that officer has skills that suck, you can just go 3 steps to the right and trade in skills by spending starfleet merits
and then how to get my female posse into mini-skirts!
I think you needed to have a preorder that included the TOS series uniforms as a bonus or yer screwed there. But to change uniforms, theres a Cardassian tailor in the Requisitions section of Spacedock, and you can change yer stuff there. I think I played with the boobie slider for like, 5 full minutes. lol
Hope that helps man!